Another lie they told us about getting married...

Today’s wedding celebrations present numerous obstacles to intimate connection. The average American wedding reception lasts five to six hours, often extending late into the evening. Couples frequently find themselves exhausted from greeting hundreds of guests, managing vendors, and fulfilling ceremonial obligations.

Alcohol consumption during celebrations compounds the fatigue factor. While moderate drinking can enhance relaxation, excessive consumption impairs physical performance and emotional connection. Many couples report feeling too intoxicated or tired to engage meaningfully with their new spouse.

Modern wedding planning also emphasizes extended celebrations. Destination weddings, multi-day events, and elaborate after-parties can leave couples with little energy for private moments. The pressure to entertain guests often supersedes personal connection.

Social media adds another layer of distraction. Many couples spend their wedding night responding to messages, posting photos, and engaging with online congratulations rather than focusing on each other. This digital interference can fragment attention during what should be an intimate experience.

Well, without getting in to details, it appears we dodged that statistical bullet. But then again, that was 43 years ago, and there was no 'social media' to distract us...

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